7 Ciri pria tidak dewasa (7 characteristics of an immature man)

 

Ciri pria tidak dewasa (7 characteristics of an immature man) is a book which was written by Ir. Eddy Leo, M. Th. This book talks a lot about the negative characteristics of men. I highly recommend this book for all of mankind who are seeking their identity. 

       The book tells me a lesson that I will never forget. It says, Maturity is not measured by age, but from the acceptance of responsibility. In this book, I learned 7 characteristics of immature men. The first part is about sensuality. We as a grown man tend to act like a child. A child usually doesn't think beforehand, they try to feel it first before thinking. That's why children have a sensual feeling. Different from men, Mature men will think first before doing something, after they do something then they feel it. Second part, it tells you about selfishness. Selfishness is a sign of immature men. Immature men always want things to go their way without thinking how others will react. The third part is about Inconsistent. We as a man need to be consistent with what we are doing right now. Men that are inconsistent will get a hard time to focus on their life. The fourth part talks about immature men always breaking promises. A man's reputation depends on his word, so if you promise something you better fulfill it. The fifth part is Irresponsibility. A man needs to be responsible for what they have done. We have to know what we are responsible for in life. The sixth part, talks about immature men like to hide, Immature men like to hide from their responsibilities. We as a man need to be more open to our family. The last part is only responded to when forced. This part tells you that you need to have a principle or a fundamental in your life. 

       The reason I choose this book is because it has something valuable that we can get. It will truly open their mind for those who are interested in reading this book. After reading this book, you will feel like you have been slapped by someone. Overall this book is pretty good, but because it's not a fantasy book or something like that, it doesn't appeal to you when you look at it. By reading this book, you can truly know whether you are an immature man or not.

Author: Ir. Eddy Leo, M. Th.

Page Count: 75 pages 

Published: 2003

Rating: 4/5